• In a fairy tale wedding scene, a groom in a tuxedo with a pink tie tenderly kisses the hand of his bride, adorned in a white dress with pearls. They sit outdoors, beaming amidst blooms of pink flowers.

Being Prince Charming: Do any men dream of a Fairy Tale Wedding?

For many little girls, the dream of a fairy tale wedding is something they start thinking about from a very young age. They want to feel like a princess on their big day. From scribbled pictures to scrapbooks filled with wedding ideas, the vision of a perfect wedding day becomes ingrained. But what about men? Do they secretly dream of a princely wedding day too?

Do Men Dream of a Fairy Tale Wedding?

While women often picture their wedding day in great detail, many men don’t have the same vivid fantasies. Some grooms might care only about showing up on time, dressed and ready. The idea of planning every detail or imagining the big day might not seem as exciting for them.

However, this doesn’t mean that men don’t have preferences or ideas about their wedding day. Some grooms may have their own version of a dream wedding but might not admit it.

How Involved Should Men Be in Wedding Planning?

The level of involvement from your partner can vary. Some grooms may want to help with planning, while others prefer to stay in the background. It’s important to let him get involved as much as he feels comfortable with. If he prefers not to, that’s okay, too. You can take the reins and plan the day as you envision it.

If you’re worried about your fiancé not showing much enthusiasm, consider giving him tasks he might enjoy. For example, let him choose the wedding music, pick the menu, or decide on the name cards. These tasks can help him feel more involved. Just be prepared—your first dance might end up being to a heavy metal song, or the name cards could be written on Post-it notes!

What if He Wants to Plan More?

On the flip side, some grooms may have their own ideas for a dream wedding and want to be more involved. If this is the case, you might need to gently take some tasks away from him. Collaborate and discuss your vision for the day. While you may disagree on things like cake flavors or where to seat certain guests, it’s important to compromise.

Finding a Balance

Planning a wedding often brings up differences in opinion, but it doesn’t have to lead to conflict. Whether your fiancé wants to take the reins or prefers you to do most of the planning, the key is to find a balance that works for both of you. The benefits of working together can be immense, whether it’s a shared experience or the joy of seeing your ideas come to life.

The Bigger Picture

If your partner isn’t thinking too much about the details of the wedding day, don’t worry. He’s still looking forward to the life you will build together. You might need to nudge him toward the wedding planning process, but ultimately, the most important thing is that you’re about to start a beautiful journey as a couple.